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Many parent worry about their children during a divorce. How will the divorce
effect them? What actions will should the parent take to assist the child through
the divorce? What impact does arguing between the parties have on the
children? What can I do if my former spouse is creating conflict or poisoning my
child(ren) against me?
There are many schools of thought and research done to ascertain what a
parent should/should not do and say to the other parent and child. No matter
what theory of child rearing to which you prescribe, there are basic needs a child
has:
Research has shown that children can easily adapt to the various routines/rules
of both parent's households as long as the rules/routines are consistent.
Children not only need but want a relationship with the other parent. Both
parents should encourage a relationship with the other parent and any
stepparents. You must encourage visitation and interaction with the other parent
through your words and actions.
effect them? What actions will should the parent take to assist the child through
the divorce? What impact does arguing between the parties have on the
children? What can I do if my former spouse is creating conflict or poisoning my
child(ren) against me?
There are many schools of thought and research done to ascertain what a
parent should/should not do and say to the other parent and child. No matter
what theory of child rearing to which you prescribe, there are basic needs a child
has:
- to feel part of a family
- to be loved for who the child is rather than the child's actions
- have a wanted and welcome environment
- right to express all feelings whether positive or negative
- right to experience all feelings whether positive or negative
- right to be treated respectfully at all times
Research has shown that children can easily adapt to the various routines/rules
of both parent's households as long as the rules/routines are consistent.
Children not only need but want a relationship with the other parent. Both
parents should encourage a relationship with the other parent and any
stepparents. You must encourage visitation and interaction with the other parent
through your words and actions.
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